Love is something beautiful created by God. Love is like a double edge sword. It can cause great hurt and can cause unspeakable joy to a person's life.
Love is not just about BGR. It's something essential that we must have in life. Love for the people is important. Loving people brings joy to your life too. True love is like a lifetime devotion. It's essential because, we need it too. We need love and we give love - this makes us happy.
However love in a BGR is much more intricate and it often fails. Human are born of selfish nature. They all seek happiness from one another. If one of them fails to give another part the happiness he/she wants. Conflict arises - PS KHONG
I realize in a relationship, there must be a lot virtue. The virtues are "lifetime" commitment, empathy, magnanimity, patience, honestly, and of course mutual trust between each other. Love will be the key to bind all this together. Without love, there cannot be all of this virtues. Love, Faith, and Hope are essential in marriage and even BGR. I believe this is a relationship that I myself desires.
Love of impulse will never last. When you based things on feelings, its often very risky. Certain feelings don't last forever, and when this feelings fades is when the time a relationship starts to fall. Thus, make sure shes the right girl for you. Don't act too fast, give it some time to think about it. If not you will only end up ruining others' lives.
Another issue I want to talk about is patching back. Most of time is guys who ask for a patch. Frankly speaking, in general, guys are more impulsive. For example they do something wrong, then broke up. Probably because of their hard-to-change habits? Then they acted on moment of impulse. I believe that majority of the guys have more feelings for a girl after broke up. That's just my analogy. Then they ask for a patch. Then they do stupid things again. It's important for a girl to know what she wants. And not make carnal decision based on the anxiety of hurting the guy.
Love is really, a lifetime commitment. Are you ready?
